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With students from over 1,400 campuses involved in the Pro-life Day of Silent Solidarity, the event was a huge success as the message of life was proclaimed across the country.  We have received many stories and thanks for hosting the pro-life Day of Silent Solidarity from both students and parents. 

I know that many of you did face opposition, harassment, name-calling and, for a few, even suspension from school for taking a stand and being a voice.  I have heard from some who told me that kids were trying their best to make them talk, calling them names and mocking them.  I have heard that teachers and school administrators were making fun of some of you telling you that you were wasting your time or even comparing some to racists for being pro-life.  But what I heard most is that you stood strong and did not cave into their mockery and insults.  You remained faithful to your convictions and did as it says in James 1:2 &3 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.

In a world where tolerance is preached loudly and free speech is regarded so highly, it is a shame that a student who would stand up for life won't be tolerated.  We live in such a culture of death and violence, and students who want to stand up against death and violence and be a voice for life are being punished.  There is something so backwards about what is happening here, and we should be alarmed.

The harassment and mockery did not stop what happened on Tuesday; in fact, they made it more powerful.  Tens of thousands of students at over 1,200 campuses helped bring a voice to the horrible violence that takes place in this nation every day.  They were a voice for the over 1/3 of their generation that is killed every day by surgical abortion.  They stood up and were counted in a peaceful, prayerful act of courage.  They were quiet so the silent scream of their brothers and sisters could be heard across this nation.  I am honored to be affiliated with kids like this.

If you have pictures or stories about the Pro-life Day of Silent Solidarity, please e-mail us

2005 STORIES

Hi.  My name is S.J. and here is my story and what I learned from it (last sentence)...
Yesterday, I participated in a program of the www.StandTrue.com Christ-centered pro-life association in which I was silent for an entire day.  A white paper sign I taped to my black shirt read, "I AM SILENT TODAY IN MEMORY OF THE UNBORN BABIES WHO LOST THEIR LIVES BEFORE THEY EVER HAD A VOICE. My mother chose life, and now I'm here. Please pray for others who must make the choice. www.StandTrue.com."
I had written on my left hand, "There are no 'excusable' abortions," and on my right hand, "Psalm 139:15-16."

Here are some reactions people had when they found out what I was doing:

"I don't believe in picketing abortion clinics, but that silence thing is a good idea. It's like a fast."

"Wow."

"Are you the only one doing it, or are there more?"

*understanding smile and nod*

"Aww... and now I forgot what you ordered 'cause I was reading your shirt..."
(lunch lady)

"Is it hard?"

"Oh, I like that..."

"That's true."

"Shh!" with a smile and "You can't talk!" (when I accidentally spoke)

"That's really cool that they would do that with it being legal in this country and everything."

"I respect that."

*big smile and thumbs up*

"That's really cool."

"Well, I would ask you about it.. but..."

"Oh, there were some people from Kansas City that went to D.C. and they were doing that..."

"I don't want to talk with you being quiet. It makes me feel weird."

"You can't talk back to me so I can say whatever I want to!" (smiling)

CHALLENGES:

Sitting with a friend at breakfast and not being able to talk to her
Being unable to verbally encourage those who seem sad
Avoiding ordering food because I couldn't talk to the cashier
Staying silent in class when I knew an answer
Asking a friend to help me order my lunch
Meeting new people without being able to tell them my name
Slipping up on accident while studying to talk out loud to myself for continued focus
Accidentally speaking to my friend to apologize for something
Watching people walk away without talking because they thought if I was silent they also had to be
Working the lobby
Switching schedules with another lobby worker through hand gestures
Hearing people talk down a friend of mine behind her back without being able to stop them
Cringing when I heard someone let out an offensive word with no way to let them know I disapproved
Watching friends walk through the lobby and not being able to call them out
Being unable to call and talk to my family
Doing my homework alone even though my friend had called to see if I wanted to do it with her... but I couldn't call back
Catching a lobby worker walking through to fill in for me so I could use the restroom
Helping a guy get in touch with someone who wasn't in her room, finally letting him use my cell phone... at first he thought I was deaf

BLESSINGS:

Sharing Psalm 139:15-16 with a few people because it was written on my hand
Lobby phone amazingly never ringing the entire time I was on duty
Realizing how hard it is not to have a voice
Paying more attention to what others had to say
Finding a renewed passion against abortion
Praising God for giving me life even though the world would have labeled me an "excusable" abortion
Praying that God would bring peace to that woman today trying to make the choice and knowing He would
Finding out that another guy on campus is doing the same thing and knowing there are thousands around the country participating

WHAT I LEARNED in one sentence:

It's amazing to me how many people are afraid of silence yet still hesitate when it comes to defending the silenced.

God bless all those who participated in this amazing program.  I pray that it will continue to grow each year until this country truly realizes the value of every beating heart and living soul.

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Silent Day

"" So as many of you might know on Tuesday I did not talk at all during school. The day began like any other day, I woke up and got on the computer. I decided I would talk to my parents and when I was home, basically because they know I'm Pro-Life and I try to snatch up any time I have with them before I leave next year. Anyway...I got dressed in my jeans and Stand-True Ministries T-shirt. If you didn't know Stand True is the group that put on Silent day they are "Christ Centered Pro-Life". At this point I wasn’t exactly sure if I wanted to wear duck-tape on my mouth, so I decked myself out in red. I wore a red necklace, a red bracelet (my Life Band-- Thanks Tay!) and I made a duck tape bracelet..just for fun, I also wrote “Life” on my arm and put the duck tape on my Bible and notebook…Oh yeah, I was ready.

So I took my Red Duck Tape with me…(just in case) and went off to school. I got there, and saw Kelsey…she tried to communicate with me and I just waved my hands and attempted to sign out replies…I wasn’t quite successful with that. I knew 1st period would be tough…there is this one kid that enjoys to point out oddities in people and prey upon them. So he actually asked me what a page number was and I attempted to sign and then he was like “Why aren't you talking?” And I was like “yay” and I gave him the sheet of paper and he read it…made some snappy remark and his friend asked for a sheet, I gave her one and for the next 5 minutes they talked on that side of the room about me and gave each other looks…Granted, I was 5 feet away from the both of them. Some other kids snickered and cracked jokes…whereas my friends in that class and I worked on stuff. It was, interesting and to be honest It bothered me to a certain degree but whatever

Second Period was fun. Caroline, Alex and Cory kinda had fun with it and I wrote on a sheet of paper telling them about meeting firemen and getting a pumpkin over the weekend. Third Period..was German and By that time I had put the duck tape over my mouth and I had written on the roll of duck tape “Ask me Why Im not Talking” A few people asked, and I got to hand them sheets --wooo. Fourth period was computer and not many people found out about it..which confused me because I am normally a chatterbox in 4th period. I did get to tell a few girls about it..well not tell but give them the sheet. And by this time the duck tape was off my mouth because I kept smiling or laughing..so it came off.

Lunch happened, it was…quiet

5th period was the best. One kid had seen it and got the sheet and he thought it was cool. My teacher let him read the sheet in front of the class and tomorrow I might be able to sum up my day for warm ups.

Lastly 6th Period…the same kid in my 1st period is in that class, so once again I got snide remarks and talking behind my back. I was getting quite upset, almost annoyed at them. I brought my bible to school for encouragement and I basically prayed and asked God to open me up to an encouraging verse and here's what I got.

“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy” Proverbs 31: 8-9

And WOW! I couldn’t believe it…it was ironic that on the day I was being silent and “speaking up” for those who could not speak-- God gave me this verse to read. I had never seen this verse before and I just opened up the bible and look right at it. I wouldn’t call that coincidence but an answered prayer. After that were Beta Club pictures and then I scampered home.

It was an interesting day and I wish I could have told more people but that day meant a lot to me. After weeks of feeling like God was neglecting me, he came back or well revealed himself. because he never left. I just felt like he did and he encouraged me. I realized how blessed I am to be able to speak.

My brother came home later that day and I told him about silent day and he said “I would have made fun of you too” and I was like “Why?” and he said “Because things like that you need to keep to yourself.” I thought about that and let me say something. HES WRONG! In order to be a revolution, in order to change things about this world, we cant be complacent and we cant be afraid of peoples reactions. We cant be afraid of offending people. I am a Christian and I AM Narrow Minded. The Bible is truth and if what you say doesn’t line up, I will not agree just to get along. If every women kept to herself that she would like to vote, women wouldn’t be able to vote. So No, don’t keep your passion to yourself. It is a beautiful gift from God and you should spread the word. Passions are rare, and if something is burning inside of you by all means blurt it out and run with it.""


And let me mention today (Thursday) kids are still making fun of me for being quiet. So I guess it worked since they didn't forget what I had done. And all my teachers were supportive and I happen to live in Georgia --Imagine that

Megan

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Tuesday was a great day for those of us at our school...I walked in know only two other people who were going to be silent...and when i sat down at my prayer group before school...and everyone in the circle but one was participating...we all sat there and put on our duck tape...and the girl who wasn't participating prayed over us and the school and many other things...while we prayed silently....the only class that I had trouble in was choir...i knew my teacher would make me sing...but two others from the prayer circle are in my class and we wrote to our teacher and told her we wouldn't talk...and that she couldn't make us cause it was a national event and we were taking part in it for the day....students in the class said it was stupid that we were doing it...we simply carried a message with our other papers replying to that saying....its not that we wont talk...it that we choose not to for those of our brother and sisters who don't get the choice to speak...we had many people join in...some committed to being silent...others said they would support us but wouldn't be silent...I had my science teacher at the end of class show me a picture and bible verse that went with it at the end of class...and another teacher who is our child development teacher point us out in her class...and applauded us for the stand...I came home and my mom was even trying to get me to talk...but I didn't...I went to work also...and my manager shifted everyone's positions so that I would have one that I didn't have to talk at...of course my co-workers wanted to see me slip up as well....I went from 5:30 that morning when I got up to 10:00pm that night with only saying a few words...it was a great experience to do that for the day...and see how some people would react...some reacting not like you would have thought...then seeing others participate when you had no idea they would....

well that was how my silent day went....thank you and God Bless

Stacey

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Dear Stand True:

I was very edified when my 10th grade daughter Elise Rubin, came home from Northeast H.S. in Pasadena, MD with an "Why I am Silent" pamplet from Hillary Humphrey. It was wonderful to see a public school student(s) stand up from our unborn brothers and sisters. As an active member of the pro-life community, and regular at the March for Life in January, I applaud her courage to boldly defend life. (I don't know if any other students participated)

Thank you Hillary and Stand True! Our young people can make such a big difference and keep up the good work!! The more people who are educated, the more lives we will save.

Sincerely Yours in Christ,

Patti
Pasadena, MD

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wow Tuesday was a huge success for me, i handed out flyers and red duct tape to a lot of people. however, my principal did ask me not to hand out flyers so i taped one to my notebook, then he asked me to please stop my foolishness and stop judging people and told me i needed to take my duct tape on and stop disrupting school, so i took a break from my silence to defend the campaign and i rationally explained to him why i felt the need to do it. he was still mad and i had to sit in the office all day, but after-school, i was handing out flyers again. I don't care what price i could've paid if he decided to give me a worse punishment, it was worth it!
Kate

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My name is Rebecca Owens from Winter Park High school, Florida. I also wanted to tell you thank you for the motivation of standing up for what we believe. The day after my algebra teacher told me that he was proud of what I did because if it wasn't for people like us who believe in Pro-life, he wouldn't be here today because his mother almost aborted him. So thank you again.


Another thing, three other people joined me the day of, spur of the moment, that did not register. Just so you know. Have a good day

-Rebecca

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My friends and i protested today.
Lehigh Valley Performing Arts High School
in Bethlehem Pennsylvania.

it was amazing. it caused lots of drama at our school. but i was quite the whole day,
my best friend is adopted. if her mom had chose abortion, i wouldn't have a best friend.
she is lucky, but what about those children that don't have a voice. they are someone's best friends.someone's soul mate. they are a SOMEONE.

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I come from Harbor City International High School, in Duluth, MN. The stories I can tell about this day of silence aren't spectacular, but they are still stories. One, in particular, stands out as something I would like to share.

As far as I know, I am the only student who participated in the Day of Silence. My school is an extremely liberal school, and it took more courage than I thought I had to walk into that building today with my red armband, and the scotch tape over my mouth.
I got quite a few neutral comments after people read the flyers. My first negative comment came from a friend of mine during second hour, and then I found myself surrounded with statements of "I'm pro-choice" or "So you like over-population, huh?" -- that was hard.
During fourth hour I am a teacher's assistant in a Spanish One class. Since I couldn't talk, I sure wasn't doing much. My sister (she attends a college a couple of miles from my high school) dropped by and pulled me out of class. She gave me a card of encouragement, which was a total Godsend.
Her reminder that I had lots of people praying for me (along with some in-school support) came just when I needed it, and I believe that God sent her when He knew that I needed a boost of courage to make it through the rest of the day.

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Hello,

I am a social studies teacher at a high school in the St. Louis area. Today several of our students participated in the Day of Silence. There was some discussion of it during my early classes, but I politely noted that the students' right to express themselves as stated in the Supreme Court case of Tinker v. Des Moines. (It was a very teachable moment, in fact.)

However, later on in the day I got some very, very disturbing news. The head principal of my school, under the inexplicable advisement of our district lawyer, began ordering the students to remove the duct tape from their mouths. One of my students was literally hauled into the principals office and told to remove it. She refused, writing out the fact that the first amendment and the Tinker case protected her right to do as she did. (According to the student, the administrators did not know of the Tinker case and had to look it up... and then they inaccurately told her it did not apply to mouth coverings.) The principal did not relent, and sent the kid on to the counselor's office, where the counselor also tried to persuade the kid to remove it. In tears, the student finally relented.

And she was not the only one. Other teachers told me of principals accosting students in the hall and ordering them to remove the duct tape, first off their mouths and then off their arms.

Naturally, when I talked to some of the students after school, I was furious. Nor was I alone. At least a few of my pro-choice colleauges were equally angry, in no small part because the school had so flagrantly violated the students' first amendment rights.

It wasn't right what happened, and I wanted to pass it on to you in hopes that perhaps something could be done about it.

Sincerely,

a high school teacher

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I must say, I was becoming quit discouraged when everyone at my brand new school began to look at me funny.
People would ask about my red tape, and I'd hand them a flyer with a serious, thoughtful look. Not a single person understood the true meaning, so I wrote a little note on each flyer, "My silence represents the millions of babies who never got to speak due to abortion", Once this was done...people were asking more and more questions.
I have names, numbers, and email addresses for me to get back too so I can spread the word, not only about abortion, but about God.
I was truly blessed when my 7th hour teacher was willing to accept my action with open mindedness, and with that, each student asked for a flyer, and many students (although the end of the day), asked if they could too, become silent with me. Amen, October 25th was a huge success as far as I am concerned, because although I got discouraged, it was worth it to know that I now have people who want to participate in the fight against abortion.

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My name is Ryan, and I am a student at Woodbridge Senior High School. Last year I participated in the movement, and I was delighted to do so again this year.

This year, however, the administration of my school told teacher to confiscate any material pertaining to this movement and to send anyone with it to the office.

Just before the bell rang for first period, my teacher confiscated all the papers (the paper available at the Stand True website), including a paper defining our legal rights that was given to me by the person organizing this at our school. Immediately after the class I went to the principal, who would only tell me that the school would not allow the distribution of any literature not approved by the school.

Later, I was called down to see my assistant principal, who said much the same. Both were very gracious: neither asked me to speak, understanding the point of the movement.

I met with the organizer for our school, a good friend of mine, and together we went back to the assistant principal and spoke with him to gain an understanding of why we weren't permitted to give the papers to students who asked. He said that we could say what was going on, we could even wear larger versions of the paper taped to our shirts (which we were), but we could not give out papers to anyone. Why not? Handing out papers takes it to the "next step."

The principal sent out an email detailing the procedure the teachers were supposed to take. In it, he emphasized that the movement was not endorsed by the school. A teacher, a close friend's mother, replied to the email, "How does this get sponsored?" The principal responded only with: "It doesn't."

I am currently in the process of writing a letter to the American Center for Law and Justice detailing everything that happened. The person who organized the movement for us is also getting in contact with her family's lawyer, and doing research into what our rights are.

This is unfair, to stop students from expressing themselves just because the school is afraid of not being politically correct. Abortion is an important issue. Why shouldn't be we allowed to talk about it? We cannot just pretend it doesn't exist, we can't ignore it and hope the whole thing goes away! The school is trying to do just that: pretend that issues don't exist. They're so concerned with being politically correct that they are violating they very rights they're trying to protect.

My employer said it best: "If it was a pro-choice movement, they wouldn't have cared."

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This day of silence was brought to my attention by members of our youth group, for which I'm the leader. They all decided they wanted to participate in this day to show their support against abortion.

The kids range from middle school to high school level. No problems at the high school.
However the middle school was a different story. My niece attends there and was told along with 22 other students that they must remove the duct tape and/or bandanas. That they were disrupting classes. My nieces had designed her own t-shirt explaining what she was doing. She was made to cover her t-shirt up. Still she refused to speak, at which time she was informed that if she did not speak, she would be suspended for "non-participation"

Now we as parents are planning a protest of our own. Armed with red duct tape, bandanas and t-shirts of our own design. And banner that will say..."They were silenced in the womb and now they are silenced in school hallways."

The reasoning behind all this is that one parent complained. Well it only took one atheist to have prayer and the ten commandments removed from the school. Since when is it disruptive for middle school students to remain silent. The last time I was in the school the teachers were telling the students to be quite. But that was when it was convent for them.

We plan on standing behind our kids and our beliefs. To fight for what we believe in till the end
Would appreciate any and all help from your organization on this matter.

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So today I did the day of silence and the outcome was rather surprising.

I had told some people about it beforehand...no wait...I told a lot of people. nobody seemed to interested. so I figured I pray about it and just do it myself if I had to. I prayed during some of my classes and as people came up and asked what I was doing some of them joined me. Some people said that next year they would do it with me if i reminded them so I promised them I would.

throughout the day I had people try to make me talk and say that since they didn't support me they would talk louder and more than they usually did. all I did was sit it out and pray. I could tell that I would get confronted about this for a while. but I realized that God was putting me in this place to try to make a difference. help oh so liberal MA change.

I sent many of them to StandTrue.com and gave them the fliers that I had printed out. I found most of the fliers in the trash or on the ground, but it just made me want to try harder.

I decided that next year I would take this to the school board and try to get announced, get more people involved. I realized that if I start that, maybe it would become as big or bigger as the day of silence for gay rights.

I realized that God put me in MA for a reason, to make a difference in one of those states where "if its considered immoral there then its just fine here".

I think that the worst part of the day was realizing how so many people are un open to peoples views and so un respectful. its so sad to see the way people treat people who have different views.

I hope that the day went well for others, ill continue to pray

God Bless,
Megan

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I have attached 3 pictures of my friend and I who both participated on our campus for the day of silence. We attend the University of Science and Arts of Oklahoma, a very liberal campus. We received opposition. Through the day, pro-choicers started wearing armbands that said "choice." They called us stupid (among other names) because we couldn't even speak up for what we believed in, but their real problem with us was that our silence was speaking too loudly. In the evening we did a silent prayer walk around our campus and I felt the power of God with us. It was awesome.
-Stacie

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Silent day was awesome! Our voice was totally heard, even though we said
nothing. I just read your newsletter talking about all these kids who were
harassed or even suspended for taking part in this day. I was harassed and
made fun of but not nearly as much as I was commended for it! I feel blessed
to go to this school where the faculty is so understanding. I found out the
day after that tons of parents called the school and complained to the
principle saying, "How could you allow students to take part in an act
against abortion?" I just have to say, praise God!

Shelli

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Hi, my name is Sarah from Liberty University, Lynchburg, VA.  I just wanted to share a little of what I learned from this day of silence.  I must be honest and say that I did slip and spoke about ten words, and I also spoke during my Physics lab (due to professor's request), but the message made was still loud and clear.  I'm so thankful for how God used it.  You see, I work in the dining hall here on campus, which is not Christian based, and I was able to have a testimony for those silenced.  One fellow-working working in the dish room with me thanked me and asked if I was born-again.  I nodded my head in response, and she gave such a beautiful smile.  My job did not discourage me at all for my actions, but rather many gave support.  Praise the Lord!
In Christ,
Sarah

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Hi!!  My name's Chloe.  Some people at my school participated in the Day of Silence.  It went very well, and more people participated than I expected.  I'm writing an article about it for the teens' section of the newspaper here.  It's called Listen Up!, and it won't be published until next Sunday.  So, it would be great if there would be any way for me to get in contact with some students from other schools in the country to get some quotes & hear about their stories.  If not, it's cool.  My friend Shelby Harvey, who's also a part of the newspaper took pictures, and she'll send some to you later.  I'm sending this email as a reply and also to the address for the pictures because I didn't know who to contact about this.  This whole thing is amazing, and it's really helping get the word out & even change a few views.  Thanks!
                                           Sincerely,
                                             Chloe

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Silent Day was a big deal at Bearden High School!! My friends and I passed out flyers and painted our school rock!! It was a hard day not because of the not talking but thinking of the abortions and being harassed!! All day people would rip the tape of our mouths and try to get us to talk but making us angry!! People said they would rape us to see what we would do when we got pregnant we prayed for these people all day long and we got criticized even for our faith!! Still today 3 days later we continue to wear life tape on our jeans and backpacks!! People continue to question us about or belief on abortion and we tell them the same thing!! And they still ask why we are still wearing the tape when it’s over and our reply is that silent day might be over but abortion isn’t!! And people are still
harassing us by email and phone calls but we continue to pray that God will End abortion and send us a Revival!!

IN Christ,
Kelsey and her friends

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hi..
its glad to see that the Day of Silence worked!!
i did have to break my silence because one of my teachers was being, well, pushy? she saw that i had the papers, and she signed a permission slip saying that i could be silent (which i had signed on Friday) and kept trying to get me to answer questions. i had to finally say 'what if i was aborted, how could i answer you then?' needless to say, the whole class got the point of the day, and the teacher was awestruck. but, completely awesome, to make people think about the 1/3 of our class that isn't there, because they were murdered.
take care,
caiti
new jersey

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Ya....I got all the little comments of "Ya..those little babies need you..shh!" along with the laughs..I just gave them that "Don't hate me because you kill babies" look. It was great..I felt like I was doing something worth while..I got a total of like 150 ppl to do it...It got spread real good.. And plus my principal is pro-life...that made me happy to hear it. I got all the big people of the school to do it.. :-D

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i know now that next year I'm going to make a much bigger deal out of what I did.

i have many friends who, year after year, participate in GSA's Day of Silence against homosexuality bashings, it's stand against the violence, not against how you feel towards it. they've always had the rule that if a teacher asks you to speak in class, you have to speak. that was the rules, so u didn't get in trouble.

However, we have rules that you're not allowed to wear bandanas or anything else tied around your arm or leg, and of all the administrators i saw that day, not one said a single thing.

i started out as the only person in my school doing the day of silence. first period, one of my good friends joined me. at lunch, a half dozen more joined me.

next year I'm getting red duct tape and placing it over my mouth. it's a statement, and people notice when I'm not talking, especially.....

thank you for letting me be involved in something so amazing.

}i{ Jennifer }i{

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I'm a 17 year old senior in Kentucky. I did the day of silence with no problems, the only snag was was that we couldn't wear the duct tape for safety reasons. There were over a hundred people in the high school that supported the cause. However, there were 22 in our middle school and all of them were called down to the office and told to talk or be suspended. The only reason that was given was because the principal was pro-choice. A lot of parents complained and it is still going on even now.

We also had a few students get some of the duct tape and write death instead of life. And there were a few other students that decided to stay silent, for the women that are raped and get pregnant and have an abortion because it is after all HER choice. I know these are their beliefs, but they all knew very well that Tuesday was the day of silence for those against abortion. They'd rather have a million babies killed before they even have the chance to form, rather than give them that chance and put them up for adoption, and give another couple a chance with the child or children.

Last year only a handful of students from the high school here participated in the day of silence and only one from the middle school did it. Maybe next year I hope we'll double in size.

Rebekah

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My 12 yr old daughter participated in the day of silence and had such an impact by her silence that I thought to reward her for her efforts and also keep the statement she made in her school fresh in the memories of the students that asked her about her stand. She recruited 3 fellow students, all of her 7 teachers, her counselor, her vice principal and a yard duty teacher to join in her stand by the end of the school day. She also handed out over 100 fliers by the end of the day. I would like to have a t-shirt made for her with the "she is a child, not a choice" logo on it, but realize that there might be copyright infringements on the use of this logo. Can you tell me if it is possible to purchase a shirt or have a copy of the design sent to me so I can have a shirt made for her? Thank you so much for hosting this stand. It does a mom's heart good to know that not everything I teach her is just something she considers to be "uncool" and blows it off. If she hadn't asked me if she could take this stand I wouldn't have known that she has listened to me in this respect. It is good to know that even at such a young age that my daughter is becoming a young lady that is worthy of my respect and is not ashamed to stand up for the right thing even when its not necessarily a "cool" thing.

Thank you,
Stephanie

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Hello,

The is Valerie from Bradley Academy for the Visual Arts in Pennsylvania. Tuesday was awesome. In a highly liberal school there were 6
students with arm bands and I also had tape over my mouth. Besides getting harsh looks and being called weird, my college was very accepting. The only real problem we had was with the poster. We tried hanging it up around the school but the president of Bradley thought it could be to offensive. So we obeyed and stuck to handing out the little flyers when we were asked why we
were not talking. I even had one instructor thank me for taking a stand. This was very surprising because I thought this particular instructor would
be very much against it.

I thank God for this opportunity to Shine His light in a very dark place and to help the silent screams of Gods little ones be heard.

God Bless,

~ Valerie

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I'm really glad I participated again this year, I got a lot of reactions and I think I got a few people to realize what we are fighting for. Can't wait for next year!

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Hey guys,
I want to thank you for hosting the day of silence. It was incredible, i had so many ministering opportunities that day, and especially the day after. One kid that I have been ministering to for 2 years, and just found out he's bi-sexual, yelled at me for being pro-life via this chain of events:  pro-life-->republican-->Christian--->homosexual hater
after this, he went and told many people that i am a gay basher. (including the entire GSA (gay straight alliance) which consists of about 200 members, being that i live in Massachusetts, (first state allowing gay marriage, and going to school in Amherst, 30 minutes from Northampton, most dense gay population in the US))
and through this, I had about a total of 300 people come up to me, and ridicule me. But I was glad for the opportunities to minister, (I'm a missionary =D, I love that stuff!!)
but the day after, the kid that's bi-sexual, came up to me and apologized for spreading this rumor, and praise God it all stopped. But in the process, I planted nearly 300 seeds, in 2 days, I think that's pretty good myself.
God bless you guys lots!!
Peace out,
JazzyJake

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Standtrue-

My Day of Silence may not have been as bad as some. It was hard though not to talk, though. In some situations I had to speak to teachers about getting homework for the next week because I'll be missing school. Other than that I stayed silent. The only people in my school participating were myself and the girl occupying the locker beneath me. I got into trouble at some points with teachers who did not realize what I was doing and nearly got a detention when not answering their questions. But it made me stronger to know that I had brothers and sisters in Christ who were backing me up all over the country and I am proud to know that I was a soldier in the army that fought abortion. A few girls at my school have been sexually active with boys and their fears are of being pregnant. All day I thought of them and that maybe the effort I put forth will keep them from dehumanizing their babies if they do indeed become pregnant. Most people thought it was just like me to do something this dramatic, and they did not understand how important this was.

Brian Ramirez, the boy from Georgia who was suspended for being Pro-life should become a national hero for teens in my opinion. It may seem a little drastic, but think about the Womens' Rights Advocates that were "overreacting to the way women were treated" in their time and how much we look up to them now. Brian, if you read this, know that I am grateful that you were willing to stand for such a cause so strongly and that you have inspired me to fight even harder for everything I believe in. God bless you, Ramirez.

As for everyone else who participated, God be with you all and may you be blessed for your efforts toward anti-abortion. I hope that all of you will be blessed beyond belief for the rest of your lives.

-Beth; Oklahoma

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This was the first year I've participated in the Day of Silence. I was fortunate enough to be met with respect from all who saw me, and was encouraged by the other red armbands I saw on campus throughout the day. (There were three of us in one class, which is wonderful; I attend a small liberal arts college founded by Methodists.)

However, I was saddened in reading the stories of the persecution other students met in their stand for Life. Adults teach children to stand for what we believe in, and then when we stand for something they disagree with, we are punished. Go figure.

I would like to send a message to all those who participated in the Day of Silence (if you're willing to put this where it can be read by all).

God bless you! You have stood for Christ, stood for Life, and met persecution without wavering. You are all truly voices for the children who have none, and voices for the Lord! I remember you all in my prayers, especially those who are facing persecution even now for actions taken on Tuesday. God bless you all!

Your Sister in Christ,
Nicole

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When I first found out about Silent day I was like wow, such a great cause. Prior to the event I talked to my American History teacher about it, he wasn't for it but respected me for doing what I felt was right. On Tuesday October 25, 2005 I placed a red arm band around my arm and wore it to school. I didn't care what other students thought NOR did I care. I felt what I was doing would make a difference. I made it through the first period then came my next one, which happened to be Latin 1. Many students asked me for flyers I handed them out and a lot of them want to do it next year now, I am really surprised. That same day I had History and amazingly many students in there wanted flyers too and they also want to do it next year. The changes I made at my school were a great impact on Silent Day. Hopefully now my school Colonial High School in Orlando, Florida will become more Pro-Life!

-Tucker

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Again, thank you! I am grieved that these students would be harassed by school faculty, etc. I know that fellow peers may have a hard time with this issue, but it is really none of the faculties business. I had a lot of positive feedback from those that I came in contact with, and if they did not agree, they kept their opinions to myself. I had several girls tell me that they didn’t know those “facts” about life that were printed on the back of the fliers. She felt that if more people knew those facts that they would feel differently about abortion, she took more than a handful of fliers and was passing them out.

My professors were not only respectful, but also supportive. This project made fellow classmates think.


Again, thank you!

~Nicolette

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       I really liked this idea and can't wait for a chance to do it again! I got reactions such as "Wow you are so cool." "You are my idol." "I wish I could be as cool as you." "I could never do that." and "You are like an angel. I wish I could be you."
 
       I think that people who did it are my heroes too. Just like you great people who set this up, you are MY heroes and I wish I could be just like you. This was a great experience for me. It made me be extra pro-life, and I love it. All my friends now come to me for advice on religious anything especially pro-life.
 
      I'm just sending you this email so you can know how much it changed me, and what my opinions are. Thanks for setting it up. You are my heroes!!!!!
 
Sincerely,
Teresa
St. Charles, MO

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Wow. What a day it was.
It started out just fine, we had lots of participation at my very odd school. (We take high school courses on a college campus and then go to
college for the last two years...) Anyway, there was a lot of participation. A few students sat right next to us as we were standing there talking
about how stupid we were and how we didn't really want to protest we just wanted attention. It was completely uncalled for and it made me mad, but I
tried to remind myself that they had been lead astray and didn't know any better. One kid chose to boycott our protest by wearing a shirt that
boasted "DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN HERE" with an arrow pointing towards his arm which had a red armband on it with a swastika drawn upon it. That was quite disturbing to me. By the end of the day, most of the kids had given up the protest and thrown away their armbands for their respective reasons. It was truly a sad experience, but at the same time inspiring for the simple fact
that people noticed. One of our teachers said "wear your armbands all you want but if they interfere with class, you know what that means..." It was just like getting punched in the stomach all day for no reason. :-( Oh well. I love you guys! Leah  - The Early College at Guilford

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this year, a lot of students participated in 10/25/05 silent day.we wanted to give you our patronage and decided to send you thanks, in a picture taken at our local high school South Jefferson NY with me and such others in it, although there was many more then in the picture that participated in this event at our school, many didn't have the same periods and we at that time we took the photo, I'm really happy that some students and teachers cooperated with us...as some didn't. our
principle thought we made the day up and didn't no that this was our right to stand in silence against abortion again thank you for your time and
hopefully there is an end to this nonsense of abortion, your friends,from South Jefferson

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Wow what a turn out!! I go to a small AAA school with only about 400 students in my High School. at the beginning of the day I was the only one, but by the end of the day there was at least 30 other students showing the pamphlets and wearing red tape! It was really awesome to see so many people respond. Many students also told me that they wanted to do it next year. There was one kid who is pro-choice who I handed the pamphlet to and showed him the life facts and he said that he admired what I was doing but that it didn't change his mind, keep him in prayer. There was a girl in my grade who is pregnant and she came up to me and asked me about the flyers, after she read it she had tears in her eyes. She later told me that she has decided to keep the baby!!
thank you for everything,
Malorie

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The National Students Day of Silence was a struggle for me as a talkative 16 year old girl.
I Prayed before leaving to go to school. And i knew it was going to be hard but I was prepared to reach the goal.
 
I wore a red shirt and a red bandana on my head as a head band, then the Duct Tape on my shirt, I printed the Flyer's Front and back on separate sheets and taped the Front side on the front of my shirt and the back one on the back. For the ones that "Didn't" want to read the message I had a sign saying:
 
"Silent for the ones Silenced by Abortion.
 
Making a stand for the ones that didn't get the chance to." 
 
 
Basically everyone noticed, Some teachers and peers despised the Idea of defending something like Abortion and others thought it was a great way to send out a message.
 
Everyone Asked how I did it and I replied  "I'd Think about what I was doing, and what I was making a stand for. And then I knew it was worth it"
 
 
Emily
Putnam County High School, IL

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People at my school participated in lots of numbers. The only problem we had with the school administration was that they didn't want us to wear the duct tape on our mouths since it would hurt if student's pulled it off. We all complied with his wishes, and put the duct tape somewhere else.

There were people who believed strongly for pro-life at my school too, they stood in silence for pro-life. They wore duct tape on their shirts that said, 'I stand in silence for the voice of the woman that you're trying to silence.'

All in all it was a good success. Though we had a few problems with with people who participated even though they didn't know what they were protesting. My friend wrote in the county newspaper about the day, with a picture of me and my friend Megan in it. We raised people's awareness of it, though, and so succeeded with our cause.

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I'm terribly sorry it has taken me so long to send this in, but it was college midterm week, so I was studying hard.  At my school (Niagara Falls High School), Tuesday, students were told that wearing tape across their mouths is a choking hazard.   I myself only wore an armband reading "Life," and my dean asked me to remove it.  I quietly refused by shaking my head, offered him a flier, pointed to my arm and walked away.  Several teachers were giving zeros to students who refused to speak, and some teachers even ignored the students who partook.  Several teachers also yelled that if we are pro-life, we have to be anti-war, anti-death penalty, and anti-assisted suicide, which I am.  Students at the school would yell, and say things like, "I can be as loud as I want because I'm pro-choice!"  It didn't beome a major problem, but it wasn't fair to those who did make a stand; their first amendment rights were violated.  Many teachers and administrators, however, were supportive and encouraging; I wish more students would have participated, and that more teachers would've respected our actions.  I just wanted to share my story. Thank-you for your time.

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silence day was pretty hard at my school.
my math teacher forced me to speak in science,
making me give a presentation.
Other than that, in other classes, my teachers were "disappointed"by none forced me to talk.
My classmates however had a lot to say. They would openly criticize me and talk about me
amongst themselves knowing I wouldn't talk back.The sad reality is most girls don't realize what a tragedy is being committed to our generationof young women. Most of my classmates disagreed with what I was doing.
I was called a fag many times. Not sure what that has to do with being pro-life.But everyone would say "wow you're so gay. what a waste of time"Next year I hope to make a bigger impact.
-aimee

 

 



 

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